Should I ask him to go to a hotel with me?
Sandy asked:
We are not in a relationship yet, dating now and then but that’s only having lunch or dinner. I know he likes me and I begin to have feelings to him recently, but the problem is that he’s a foreigner in our country and there are big culture differences, I’m an Asian and he’s from Europe.
Now I have a five-star hotel coupon which is a luxury room and breakfast for two. I don’t want to waste it so I ordered a room and planned to go there tomorrow, but I don’t really wanna stay alone. I want to ask him to go with me because I want to spend more time with him, but just feel embarrassing like asking for sex, does everybody feel like that? In fact I’m a virgin and the first sex means much in our culture, so I’m still worried about that.
I want your opinions, thank you so much!
Teresa
We are not in a relationship yet, dating now and then but that’s only having lunch or dinner. I know he likes me and I begin to have feelings to him recently, but the problem is that he’s a foreigner in our country and there are big culture differences, I’m an Asian and he’s from Europe.
Now I have a five-star hotel coupon which is a luxury room and breakfast for two. I don’t want to waste it so I ordered a room and planned to go there tomorrow, but I don’t really wanna stay alone. I want to ask him to go with me because I want to spend more time with him, but just feel embarrassing like asking for sex, does everybody feel like that? In fact I’m a virgin and the first sex means much in our culture, so I’m still worried about that.
I want your opinions, thank you so much!
Teresa
Tags: First Sex, Five Star Hotel, Luxury Room
March 30th, 2009 at 11:17 pm
Tara
it sounds sleazy.
April 2nd, 2009 at 8:10 am
Donna
sorry, not sure if you dont it yet or not. but i really dont think you should do it. wait its not the time, you want to save your first time for a personal you really love and want to be with and dont mean just in bed.
April 3rd, 2009 at 10:37 pm
Ruby
Sure, go ahead and ask him; all he can say is no. Tell him the room comes with Cable and HBO. You can watch a Movie, order room service AND if things get hot and heavy so be it.
Good luck!