You can call the restaurant and ask if guys are expected to wear ties, other than that: I’d have you, hubby and kids all dress like successful celebs, mindful of photogs….and carry demeanor that you all could care less what the staff may see you all to be.

The hubby may have to forego the jeans for one night, but I think he can find some savvy slacks and matching jacket that can do the trick; the same for the kids (without jackets). I’m sure you have a dress in there that can make you sizzingly “lethal” and turn heads in admiration.

And again: to h e l l with what the staff see you as.

Bear in mind, the staff live hand to mouth in barely affordable apartments, and easily become jealous of their successful restaurant clientele.

Your two kids and husband should wear dress pants and a collar shirt. I think those are smart and casual. You should wear a skirt and a nice cute shirt. If it is a little bit ’showy’ then wear a cute jacket over it. HAVE FUN!

A nice flurry almost knee length skirt or longer and a collar or polo shirt.

find a nice summer dress that’s what i would wear not to out there or nice pants and a nice shirt

Hi…Im an employee of a company that helps put on these events…and I would suggest Black! Black is classic and elegant….For example: Black slacks…paired with a blouse…either white or black would be cool…dont over accessorize(sp?) depending on the weather..long sleeves are probably going to give you a more smart casual look than short sleeves(as fara s the boys are concerned) for your husband I recommend some black or tan Dockers type pants with matching shirt(not t shirt exactly….but more of a pullover type top. Definetely ban the jeans on this night unless they are black or white…do you kind of see where I am going with this? Picture Calvin Klein type clothes…elegant yet very basic.

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