Should I ask him to go to a hotel with me?
Monday, March 30th, 2009
Sandy asked:
We are not in a relationship yet, dating now and then but that’s only having lunch or dinner. I know he likes me and I begin to have feelings to him recently, but the problem is that he’s a foreigner in our country and there are big culture differences, I’m an Asian and he’s from Europe.
Now I have a five-star hotel coupon which is a luxury room and breakfast for two. I don’t want to waste it so I ordered a room and planned to go there tomorrow, but I don’t really wanna stay alone. I want to ask him to go with me because I want to spend more time with him, but just feel embarrassing like asking for sex, does everybody feel like that? In fact I’m a virgin and the first sex means much in our culture, so I’m still worried about that.
I want your opinions, thank you so much!
Teresa
We are not in a relationship yet, dating now and then but that’s only having lunch or dinner. I know he likes me and I begin to have feelings to him recently, but the problem is that he’s a foreigner in our country and there are big culture differences, I’m an Asian and he’s from Europe.
Now I have a five-star hotel coupon which is a luxury room and breakfast for two. I don’t want to waste it so I ordered a room and planned to go there tomorrow, but I don’t really wanna stay alone. I want to ask him to go with me because I want to spend more time with him, but just feel embarrassing like asking for sex, does everybody feel like that? In fact I’m a virgin and the first sex means much in our culture, so I’m still worried about that.
I want your opinions, thank you so much!
Teresa